Setting Yourself Up To Win

Setting Yourself Up To Win

Today I feel like crap, despite fighting it like a mad woman this thing got me…a throat like I’m swallowing razor blades, a cough that’s keeping me up all night, a headache of epic proportions and body aches that aren’t much fun. And I’m not a good sick person. I’m impatient and irritable and just want my health back pronto! BUT the week ahead excites me A fabulous new client at 7am tomorrow. More planning and creating content for my upcoming events. Kicking off this months training in the Anti-Hustle Society which just happens to be WRITE AND SELF PUBLISH YOUR FIRST BOOK….cannot wait to get that started! More coaching sessions. Some video reshoots for my Kickass Academy. And LOT’S of awesome training this week including 2 boxing sessions with my new coach (I am going it if kills me!). There’s a good chance I’m not going to be well this week but I still want to kick ass in my business and outside of it so today I set myself up to win for the week ahead. All of my meals a prepped. My “to do” list is written up on my whiteboard ready for me to start putting line’s through the items first thing tomorrow morning. Sometimes you don’t feel like it. Sometimes it feels easier to let things slide and hope for the best. Sometimes it takes a monumental effort to set yourself up to win. But if you don’t do it anyway, you’re setting yourself up to fail. So…take today and use it to get your ducks in a row so that when Monday morning...
Who’s Controlling Your Life, Fear or You?

Who’s Controlling Your Life, Fear or You?

This morning my workday began (like most) with checking to see what FB Messages had come in overnight from my clients along with any enquires. During a conversation with a client she mentioned that she wished she had a vacuum cleaner to remove her mental “crap” because she keeps letting in back in. She then mentioned that maybe she needed hypnosis. Can you relate? Can you relate to the feeling of moving forwards and making great strides only to be tripped up by your own crap when you least expect it?? I’m sure you can because it happens to the best of us. My advice to my client was this. The crap is ALWAYS going to be there in some form or another so the end game is NOT about living a crap-free life (as if that’s ever going to happen!!) but instead to make a decision about whether or not you’ll let the mental crap rule your actions (or inaction). The women you see succeeding around you have their own mental crap, we all do BUT the difference is that we don’t let it hold us back. Instead we recognise mental crap for what it is…our ego wanting to keep us safe within our comfort zone….and we forge ahead regardless. We focus on what we want instead of what we fear. We subdue fear with action….LOT’s of action. And we continue to look for evidence that everything is working in our favour….our past successes, the other women ahead of us who have shown us what’s possible and all of the small signs that show up along the way...
Health, Wealth and a Life Well Lived – Keeping it Simple

Health, Wealth and a Life Well Lived – Keeping it Simple

Human’s are exceptional at complicating their crap. Let’s take getting in shape for example…… How many women do you know keen to drop the extra roll around their middle? The simplest, most uncomplicated way to do this would be to make the decision to drop the muffin top and get on with the tasks of moving more and eating less crap but HELL’S NO!….THAT is too freaking SIMPLE. Instead the process looks more like this. MUST research THE BEST program on the planet for my specific goals…..start said program and decide after 3 days…NOPE….this is NOT the program for me….there MUST be a better one…let me research some more. THEN there’s the thesis level research that goes into the “proper” way to eat for said goal. Because it’s all too hard to understand and follow the whole thing get’s tossed like last weeks salad. Only to be undertaken again (in exactly the same manner) 6 months later. You know it!! Business is the same. Women can take the simplest and easiest (for example) lead magnet strategy and turn it into an operation that would rival the planning that goes into a moon walk expedition. MONTHS can pass with zero result. I have a gorgeous client right now who has had a flying start to our time together with new clients and leads coming in at great speed. At one point in our coaching call yesterday she said she thought she should do a facebook group challenge. I asked her one simple question…..WHY?? Her leads are great, she’s picking up clients at a good speed…what would be the point in...
Kick That Alignment Struggle To The Curb!

Kick That Alignment Struggle To The Curb!

I am BOUNCING out of my skin right now…so many freaking AH-MAZING things are happening…including THIS!! ‘RISE – THE EVENT’ These event’s will run on the 12th & 13th of July in the US (still finalising which town on which date) and the 14th & 15th of June here in Australia (same deal with the dates). The events will be 4 hours long and the best part? They’re FREE!!! (We’ll be offering a paid program at the end for those you want more but you know me, there will be a crapload of value squeezed into those 4 hours alone). I’m collaborating with the fabulous Katrina Hillard for these events along with another exciting project that I know will be far richer for her inclusion. If 2 minds are better than one what do you suppose you get with 3 minds?? 3 KICKASS minds?!! Well we’re about to find out because I’m also bringing in Cat LeBlanc to be part of my other project that I promise will blow your tiny freaking MIND! (you don’t really have a tiny mind) and is going to serve as inspiration for female entrepreneurs all across the globe. I’m pulling together some pretty epic shiz right now….I’m back baby!! Just on that……. Man-oh-man had I’d been on struggle street since my trip in Thailand. Not financial struggle. Not relationship struggle. Not parenting struggle. But the worst kind….ALIGNMENT STRUGGLE. I think the reason I was struggling to get back into alignment in my business was because the alignment was only ever so slightly off. The needle was only a fraction to the left and...
Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda… Just DO IT!

Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda… Just DO IT!

My current pet peeve?? People who don’t do the work and then blame everything but themselves for their lack of results. You know what? There are 14 year old kids sitting in their bedrooms with zero dollars to their names but what they do have is: A: An internet connection. B: The desire to educate themselves on the things they need to learn to go into business on a shoestring. & C: A bigass set of balls (ie: courage, desire and a “failure is not an option” mindset) and a never quit attitude. If a 14 year old kid with zero eduction and zero dollars can become a multi-millionaire then anyone can. I’ve really wanted to keep this quiet but today I’m pissed and as ya’ll know I’m an open book and I know you’ve noticed I’ve been quieter than normal. I share the awesome parts of my life with you all and it’s only fair I share the crap as well. And lately I’ve been dealing with a whole bunch of crap! I’ve recently had a spate of past clients whinging and whining that they didn’t get the results they wanted….MONTHS after the fact, in fact recently someone came to me more than 12 months after the fact! Seems like a little pow-pow of whinging and whining has taken place. What-the-actual-hell??? Every single one of those client’s had the same resources (usually more) as the clients who succeeded. With my one-on-one clients and masterminders I have an open door policy, I make it clear from day one. You have to show up and do the work, I will...
48 Pieces of Wisdom I’ve Picked Up in My 48 Years on This Planet – The List

48 Pieces of Wisdom I’ve Picked Up in My 48 Years on This Planet – The List

I started out writing this list in the form of blog posts (you can see my latest one HERE) however, the inspiration to keep doing so has left the building…just wasn’t feeling it, but I had a lot of fun compiling this list in lieu of the blogs… I hope you like it! In no particular order….. The List Fear and worry will never change the outcome so save your energy for focusing on the things you can control. Acceptance of the things we can’t change is the fastest way to peace. Fear driven decisions will keep you playing small. When you fully commit to your decision to succeed no matter what you’re activating a powerful force that will rise up to support you. No-one gives a crap about how big your ass looks in that skirt other than you. There is ALWAYS a breakthrough after the breakdown…the suckier the struggle the better the breakthrough..so hang in there xox If you’re worried about being “too visible” by default you never will be, your internal guidance system won’t let you. Other people’s opinion of our awesomeness is far more accurate than our own…we suck knowing how amazing we truly are. Choose your battles when it comes to parenting teens….you don’t want to alienate them because they feel as though they’re always screwing up…open communication is your best friend when it comes to parenting teens and constant nagging shuts that down in a heartbeat. Still on parenting….Even though you think that every piece of advice you’ve ever given your kids has gone through one ear and out the other know that...
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