I’m Here To Tell You That You’re Not Broken!

I’m Here To Tell You That You’re Not Broken!

Sooooo….looks like my flow is back  This ones a little different from my usual content but I know this will speak to many of you . YOU’RE NOT BROKEN. I owe A LOT to the self-help movement. Without it I’d be nowhere near as self-aware or enlightened as I am today. It helped move me from a place of trying to figure a lot of stuff out the hard way, crashing and bashing my way through life trying to make sense of the childhood I’d lived and the (shitty) choices I’d made as a result…..and into a place of enlightenment and empowerment. The moment I discovered Tony Robbins my world changed for the better and I set off on the path I’m still on today. But there’s something about the whole self-help movement that shits me to tears. It’s the premise that we’re all broken and that we’ve opened the book or attended the workshop or bought the program because we’re broken and need fixing. I think that feeds perpetual feelings of inadequacy. And the nagging feeling that we are never quite there yet…never quite “fixed”. Sure, there is ALWAYS work to be done, especially if you’ve been exposed to abuse ( sexual – domestic violence – mental / verbal) because we’re often triggered. Sunday night is a great example…I was watching 60 minutes and a woman was there with her son, she had fled a DV relationship that her son had witnessed and her son then became her abuser. He didn’t really think he was doing anything wrong and her response was a conditioned one….live in fear, keep...
How I Kicked January’s Ass And Why February Will Be Even Better

How I Kicked January’s Ass And Why February Will Be Even Better

Sooooo…..it’s the last day of January, time to tally up your wins and quantum leaps. But first let me share mine…. For me January has been a pretty relaxed affair really, with over half of it spent on holiday in Thailand but in the wash up here’s my list. I absolutely LOVED sitting alone on my balcony in Thailand saying good-bye to 2016 and bringing in the New Year – it had been a massive year and the time to pause and reflect was exactly what I needed. Waking up NYD in one of my favourite places in the world spending the day doing the thing I loved most was the perfect start to 2017. Financially I hit my highest income month yet without a launch going on, so just me doing my thing AND I didn’t run any new programs at all that month. This showed me I could go away and be largely absent from social media and still hit a high note. A QL for me because I had started to get caught up in working too many hours (for me) and began to believe this is what was required. It isn’t and never has been. So I remain firmly entrenched in the art of kicking ass elegantly, or aka, the elegant hustle and know that less is more…just the way I like it  In Thailand I made 3 great new friends and one of them even became a high level private client. Another QL….I wasn’t in Thailand to pick up clients, I was there to train, eat well, spend time in reflection and to rest...
Reignite The Fire You Had For 2017

Reignite The Fire You Had For 2017

IT’S OUR 5TH AND FINAL MONDAY FOR JANUARY….. so I just wanted to check in on a few things…. Remember last year when you drew a line in the sand? When you set SUPER strong intentions to make 2017 your best year yet. When you made certain promises to yourself about who YOU were going to BE in 2017. About the things you would no longer tolerate. And the new lengths you’d go to, to achieve your goals. Well in the wash up at the end of our first month on the ground in our bright, shiny, spanking brand new year how’d you fare? Did you keep those heartfelt promises you made to yourself? Or have you slowly fallen back into your old habits?? If you have you’re not alone….creating change…especially MASSIVE change…is not easy. The initial gusto and courage that fuels us in the beginning is enough to get the ball rolling and is enough to help us find much needed clarity however it’s not often sustainable without more fuel….a LOT more fuel. The thing is you can’t rely on that first burst of excitement and enthusiasm to fuel an entire New Year. This is a fire that needs constant tending to. Leave the fire unattended too long and it goes out entirely. THAT is the thing you most want to avoid because once the fire goes out you have to start that thing again from scratch and THIS is often where the battle is lost. So if you’re sitting there beating yourself up because you didn’t follow through or because you’re frustrated you’re here….AGAIN….back where you started…...
Why I Won’t Give You My Swipe Files or Let You Copy My Sales Funnels

Why I Won’t Give You My Swipe Files or Let You Copy My Sales Funnels

On my newsfeed in the last 30 minutes I’ve seen “copy my top 6 sales funnels” and “I’m giving you access to all of my swipe files”. Urghhhhhh!!! Really? If being a successful entrepreneur was really a simple matter of copy and paste wouldn’t everyone be doing it? And everyone would successful, right?? I’m calling BS on those offers and don’t even get me started on how annoyed I get when people fall for that shit! Copying someone’s email swipe files or sales funnel isn’t going to make you successful….it makes you a copycat (even though you have permission which is a whole other issue I struggle to wrap my head around!). And it makes you a lazy thinker relying on someone else’s thinking. And it tells me you don’t trust yourself to get it right without copying someone else. And that you’re hoping for some kind of quick fix miracle over doing the actual work to come up with your own unique ideas. True entrepreneurs aren’t interested in copying someone else’s work or cutting and pasting their way to success. True entrepreneurs are excited about uncovering what makes their market tick and then creating something they KNOW will excite their market and get them talking. AND it excites us as much to share it! That’s part of the entrepreneurial game. There are no shortcuts. So stop looking for them and instead do the work. Love your tribe enough to want to bring them something you’re dying for them to experience based on your own inspired thinking and gut instinct. I’m not sure how excited you can get about...
My First Ever 6 Week Program Revealed!

My First Ever 6 Week Program Revealed!

I’ve been tossing up which program to kick off the year with and while I LOVE running my 5 Day Online Bootcamps THIS is the program I can’t get out of my head. The impact I can have and the change I can help create over 5 days always blows my mind so I can’t help but think….IMAGINE what I can do over 6 weeks!? And so here we are…but before I start building up my sales page and getting all of my ducks in a row I want to you if this is something you guys want or not! Here’s what I’m thinking…… The program will commence with a half day success planning workshop where we’ll map out your vision for not only the program but for ALL of 2017. This take place in the week before we officially kickoff. WEEK ONE – Getting Your Head In The Game If you’ve been following me for a while you KNOW that I believe that success is 100% mental. In this first week we are going to hit your blocks, self-imposted limitations and lack of confidence HARD. In that first week we’ll be working on creating a bulletproof success mindset that will not only serve you well over the course of the program but forever after. WEEK TWO – Rich Week Intensive By the end of week one you will be raring to go, you’ll have your masterplan, your head will be in the game and you will be ready to make a lot of money…FAST. In week 2 you’ll be learn my Rapid Program Development method. You’ve seen me go...
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